Loneliness in a relationship….

By the time we feel that butterfly in our tummy, start eating chocolate, gone all shy or silent, look into each other eyes, touch hands, feel the sensuality in our hands, the heat in our bodies, looking at the same direction, kissing and cuddling, we know that Love is in the air!

We then start missing each other and can’t live by ourselves anymore; we need a constant presence from the one we love.

We then make adult decisions in getting married in front of God and our families.

The vows that we said that day should and must remain with us for the rest of our lives. They are precious.

As life carry on, we face the day to day reality of our lives, but as we said on the day we committed ourselves, we will be together no matter what happen. We will love and cherish one another all the time, in good and bad times.

Time then pass by, pressure of society builds up, insecurity, internal and personal feelings starting to develop, we close ourselves down to the one only we loved. No understanding, bad consequences, and hurt feelings.Things change and we feel that we are getting old and lonely inside.

Loneliness is a relation is a very common thing, men and women get lonely in their relationship sometimes when commonality is reduced, activities declined, attention diverted, misunderstanding occured.

We cannot blame society for being the main cause of that, I think we need to think again about the meaning of vowels that make us Husband and Wife, we need to communicate, share and forgive.
We need to let go and give some love. We can live very simple lives and be happy the rest of our lives. We can try to open our hearts and listen to our thoughts. Going for a walk is an excellent remedy; take the one you love with you, kiss them on the way back- You will see the difference.

Have a good Sunday!

Are you normal?

….If yes what is normality..

Many people will say that they are abnormal. Their difference is mostly on whom they are, what they do, what they believe in, their values, ethics etc…So it’s ok to be unique!
Normality and conformity is what most people are trying to do in their life! They have to be normal to be accepted by their peers or society in general.
When different, they can suffer from bullying, discrimination,
Intellectual bullying, racial equality, sexism etc…

I heard on the news this morning that Simon-Baron-Chen is on the prospect for a prenatal test for Autism. What’s wrong with this people?

We know that prenatal testing brings a tremendous amount of fear and stress into a woman pregnancy. It’s terrific! All those informations you learn from perhaps inaccurate tests that your child has x% of chance of having an abnormality is crazy and if the NHS is involve, there is no chance! They get most things wrong!

Yes we need to talk about Autism, Down Syndrome etc… But why do we need a prenatal test for Autism? Are they saying that all the people with a very high IQ need to be tested inside of their mum’s tummy before they are born? If there are possibilities then the pregnancy needs to be reviewed or terminated.

How can they be sure about the symptoms? Surely the child needs to be born, start interacting with others before we can notice anything.
Also I though they said that the MMR Vaccine was related to Autism.

Please put your efforts on the Cancer research, Alzheimer, other serious diseases that kill people every day and stop this project. I hope the tax payers are not paying for this crazy stuff! Get real people!

Information about Autism

Best Regards

Marieme