Loneliness in a relationship….

By the time we feel that butterfly in our tummy, start eating chocolate, gone all shy or silent, look into each other eyes, touch hands, feel the sensuality in our hands, the heat in our bodies, looking at the same direction, kissing and cuddling, we know that Love is in the air!

We then start missing each other and can’t live by ourselves anymore; we need a constant presence from the one we love.

We then make adult decisions in getting married in front of God and our families.

The vows that we said that day should and must remain with us for the rest of our lives. They are precious.

As life carry on, we face the day to day reality of our lives, but as we said on the day we committed ourselves, we will be together no matter what happen. We will love and cherish one another all the time, in good and bad times.

Time then pass by, pressure of society builds up, insecurity, internal and personal feelings starting to develop, we close ourselves down to the one only we loved. No understanding, bad consequences, and hurt feelings.Things change and we feel that we are getting old and lonely inside.

Loneliness is a relation is a very common thing, men and women get lonely in their relationship sometimes when commonality is reduced, activities declined, attention diverted, misunderstanding occured.

We cannot blame society for being the main cause of that, I think we need to think again about the meaning of vowels that make us Husband and Wife, we need to communicate, share and forgive.
We need to let go and give some love. We can live very simple lives and be happy the rest of our lives. We can try to open our hearts and listen to our thoughts. Going for a walk is an excellent remedy; take the one you love with you, kiss them on the way back- You will see the difference.

Have a good Sunday!